Facilitating Meetings for Profit and Results

Facilitating Meetings for Profit and Results

Poorly conducted meetings bore participants, reduce profits, and demotivate staff. A well-facilitated meeting enables the leader to get team members to open up and share, drawing upon the minds, backgrounds and experiences of the entire team.

ONE of the challenges for a leader is how to conduct meetings and make them profitable and productive. Poorly conducted meetings bore participants, reduce profits, and demotivate staff.  Most managers and leaders rarely, if ever, possess formal training on how to run meetings effectively. Most think they already know how to do it because few of their team ever criticise or offer suggestions to the boss. All continue blindly till “death do us part.”

Facilitation by definition is “helping others discover their own answers.” This enables the leader to get team members to open up and share, drawing upon the minds, backgrounds and experiences of the entire team.

Few leaders were taught this skill. Their bosses, by example, taught them to run or direct meetings in a command format by doing 95 per cent of the talking. The staff rarely talks unless told to do so and then only share what they think the chairperson wants to hear.

First, a meeting is for a congregating of the minds, not a monologue. If people are not there to share, they should not be there at all. Stop wasting their time and your valuable resource. Just send them the minutes or an E-mail stating what you want them to do or what you want them to know. If you want to get their input and discuss ideas, then hold a meeting.

Collective Mind

Second, the advantage of getting people together is to make use of the collective mind. The mind of many creates concepts and ideas bigger than the sum of the parts. This truth is well illustrated by a cartoon I saw. Three Vikings were attacking a square castle. One said: “Its walls are too high to climb over.” The next Viking said: “The walls are too thick to break through.”

The third Viking said: “If we had just one more guy, we could surround it.” Where one or many may only see problems, someone will see opportunity. Once the blinkers are off, a world of possibilities ensues.

Third, meetings that are directed by a chairperson usually go the way the chairperson wants them to go. This is fine as long as that person is perfect. Are you perfect? I am perfectly imperfect. I’ve never met a perfect chairperson either.

It is better to have a facilitator run the meeting. His job is to help the group discover their own solutions. Here are top five reasons why facilitation usually outperforms directed meetings.

1) When many people share their ideas, the quality of the ideas is usually better.

2) During facilitation, people have to be involved so no one falls asleep. This means all minds are not only contributing but actually understand what is being discussed and why it is important.

3) Facilitated ideas drawn from the group have group buy-in and approval. The likelihood of ideas being successfully implemented dramatically improves with their approval and buy-in.

4) Ownership is a natural by-product of buy-in. Fewer people say: “Not me” or “Not my job” when they have ownership of the idea and a vested interest in its success.

5) Innovation comes from ownership and not from forced participation. If someone is ordered to do a job, they usually do just enough to accomplish the task and rarely do it differently than how they were ordered to do it. If however, that person understands why it needs to get done, has full ownership of the idea, and is responsible for its success, he will find time-saving shortcuts, ways to improve quality, have the motivation to engage others, is more willing to ask for needed help, and will champion the project.

How do you learn to facilitate meetings?

Through hard work and practice. I know that’s not what you wanted to hear. So, here are three quick steps to help you move from directing to facilitating meetings.

Step One: Do your homework.  Find out who is attending and what their agenda and personality styles are. Discover who will tend to dominate, who rarely talks, and what their individual key motivators are. Even if you regularly meet these people, take a moment to analyse how they will react in the next meeting based upon the topics to be covered, and how the topics impact them at work and in their careers. Skip this step at your peril.
Step Two: Establish meeting ground rules right at the start. A meeting without ground rules is a train wreck about to happen. The des can be covered in a minute for short, non-confrontational meetings to a solid five-minute discourse for meetings covering dicey subjects like retrenchment, budget cuts, salaries, head counts or other issues.

The four ground rules are:

RuIe 1: Your Role. Make it clear that you are there to facilitate and not to direct the meeting. If you skip this step, they will infer your role as leader and respond accordingly. You are present to help them discover their own answers. If you intend to add comments, do so after they have shared their views.

RuIe 2: Their RoIe. Let them know that no one is to keep silent and that all will contribute. To keep dominators from taking over, put a time limit on each speaker. If the topic is going to be hotly debated, add some rules such as avoid personal comments, stay focused on the topic, and not the speaker.

RuIe 3: The Goal. No sport is any good without a clearly defined goal. If you could kick the ball anywhere or hit the shuttle cock any direction you want, the game would not be very fun to play. Likewise, meetings without a clearly defined goal or outcome will wander. Participants will lose interest and disengage completely.

State the purpose of the meeting, and tell them what you need at the end of the meeting.  Get their agreement to this and then proceed to the fourth rule.

RuIe 4: Time Limit. A meeting without time limit will rarely accomplish something productive. Set a reasonable time for the meeting, and have “mile markers” in place along the way. Then appoint a time keeper whose job is to signal you and the group at important portions of the meeting. Doing so will put the group in a bit of a pressure cooker to end the meeting on time.

Some argue that quality will suffer with such tight timing. I have found that quality suffers when there is no clear time limit. People disengage and then no longer contribute their ideas when this happens. Harvard Business Review reported that decision-making is often impaired by too much information and too much time.

Step Three: Make it easy for everyone to share. Rather than expect everyone to speak up, realise that in a group over five persons, some will find it harder to share than others. Who is present also impacts people’s willingness to voice their opinions.

Consider breaking your entire group into smaller groups to get input on key subjects. For example, if you have a team of nine, put them into three groups of three, giving each either the same task or differing tasks. You may group them by rank to make it safer for juniors to share their views. Then bring them back and have group reports, task for volunteers or have each individual share their ideas. The idea is to hear everyone’s input.

Facilitated meetings are more productive and produce better results than directed meeting.

Self Presentation Secrets… How to make good first, last and enduring impressions.

Self Presentation Secrets… How to make good first, last and enduring impressions.

Self Presentation Secrets

There are very few things that can make or break a deal, a relationship a job interview than first and last impressions.  First impressions are lasting we’ve all heard but last impressions can outlast anything that preceeded them.  In between, there can be hundreds of little sublties and nuances that either help or hinder our efforts to be liked, get our messages across or make the sale.

Without filling you full of statistics about verbal and non verbal communications, let’s just approach this from a common sense perspective.  Let’s look at three areas:  dress and appearance, voice and delivery, posture and demeaner.

First, dress and appearance, though the easiest to fix is often the least attended to. Before you rush out and spend a bomb on a new suit or haircut, think about the most important meeting you’ll have for that day and dress accordingly.  It is easier to remove a jacket, scarf or tie if you’ve over dressed then it is to cover up the fact you are not wearing one.

If you are on a job interview, dress as well as the person conducting the interview.  I remember years ago when I started my business and things were tough, I needed some quick money for some bills so I took applied for a night security guard job.  I went to the interview in a suit and tie, surrounded by folks in “T” shirts and jeans.  Not only was I hired on the spot, but given “hazardous duty”, authorized to carry a gun and get a premium wage for the effort.

A general job interview appearance checklist might include (from the bottoms, up.):

  • Shoes polished
  • For men, dark sox over the calf so no skin shows  For women, no runs in the hose
  • Slacks or skirt are pressed and clean, ideally a dark color which says “stability” and a fine wool, silk or gaberdined, fine leather belt for slacks that matches the shoes
  • Suit or jacket of high quality wool or silk (no polyester)
  • Cotton or silk blouse or shirt clean and pressed
  • Silk tie or scarf.  (If interviewing with a man, wear a stripped tie or darker tie.  If interviewing with a woman, wear a patterened tie and a brighter red.  Studies show you’ll be percieved better.)
  • Face clean, extraneous hairs removed, make up for women should be subtle (leave the paint for the discos)  teeth brushed and even the tongue to prevent bad breath.
  • Hair well groomed, conservative and up-to-date (Usually women are good about this but men over 30 tend not to change their hairstyle ever again.  Look at top young executives in the magazines and see if your style is current.)

Voice and delivery are much harder to “fix” and may need some practice. For job interviews, before going into the interview, think of the kinds of questions the interviewer will ask. Tons of books are available on the subject and reading up about possible questions and responses looked for can greatly increase your chances for a successful interview and maybe even result in more money for you when you are hired.

Speak up with confidence and pause for a moment before speaking to collect your thoughts.

Why does the average person so ignorant?

Why does the average person so ignorant?

The English language is the common language which separates us all. It never ceases to amaze me how we English speakers abuse the language. This  blog is both a blog and smile maker in one. I hope you enjoy it.

Common English Gaffes:

Private school:
No trespassing without permission.

Hotel bedroom, Japan
Guests are requested not to smoke or do other disgusting behaviours in bed.

Doctor’s surgery, Rome:
Specialist in women and other diseases.

Cocktail lounge, Norway:
Ladies are requested not to have children in the bar.

Hotel air conditioner instructions, Japan:
Cooles and heates: if you want condition of warm air in your room, please control yourself.

Zoo, Hungary:
Please do not feed the animals. If you have any suitable food, give it to the guard on duty.

Restaurant, Nairobi:
Customers who find our waitresses rude ought to see the manager.

Car rental brochure, Tokyo:
When passenger of foot heave in sight, tootle the horn. Trumpet him melodiously at first, but if he still obstacles your passage then tootle him with vigour.

River highway:
Take notice: when this sign is under water, this road is impassable.

Poster:
Are you an adult that cannot read? If so, we can help.

Restaurant:
Open seven days a week, and weekends too.

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