What Women Want

What do women want in men?

Every Monday at 6 AM, I attend a Men’s Fraternity group at the International Baptist Church in Singapore. It is a programme from the USA started by pastor Robert Lewis. We are men of all denominations coming together to discover what a REAL man is and to become better husbands, fathers, friends and children of God. In a recent programme, we discovered 4 things every woman wants and it was so revealing, I thought I would share it with you. MEN… read this. WOMEN, if you agree, pass it on to the men in your life.

1) SECURITY. This can be financial security, family or relationship stability. If a man is trustworthy and gives her stability and security, she will feel more comfortable in her relationship with that man.

2) CONVERSATIONAL COMPANIONSHIP. NOT fixing, teaching or correcting her. True, open sharing with lots of listening. Men can start this with, `Honey, tell me about your day.` or `How are you feeling about your life (or about us).`

3) SINGNIFICANCE or to be Valued. A woman wants to feel valued by her man and like her life counts for something. Men, notice what she does for you, the family and others and tell her how important it is and how much you appreciate it.

4) AFFECTION. This does not usually mean sex but could include it. It means acts of affection which may include touch or anything that tells her she is treasured, loved and cherished.

I am 54 and I am just beginning to understand this. I guess better late then never.

Smile Maker: So what is hypnotism?

One man tells a friend he went to a show and was hypnotised.

His friend asks him what `hypnotised` means.

He said, `It is when you submit yourself completely to someone and do whatever that person tells you to do.`

His friend says, `Oh, I just call that marriage!`